When thinking of wedding ceremonies, we tend to think that it is the woman's responsibility (after all, she is the one who has been fantasizing about her the ring's size, the colors, the wedding dress, the place where the reception will take place, the people that she will invite, etc). I always wondered why worried so much about these little details? The wedding ceremony is simply a celebration of the unifying of two souls who love each other. So, shouldn't all of these details be the secondary preoccupation for the couple?
I am not saying that girls should stop dreaming of their wedding day; not at all. The wedding day, it is a special day that needs some planing for sure. What I am trying to say is that it should not be an extra burden either financially or emotionally on the couple.
We can keep it simple and well planned and still treat it like the special day that it really is!
According to the Wedding Planning Association, people spend in average $27,000 in a wedding. THIS IS RIDICULOUS!!!!! The only question I have to ask is why WASTE this much money on a celebration when you could use those resources to start up your family financial security. If your wife really loves you and she really is the "woman that you want to spend eternity with"; then she will understand that there are more priorities than spending such a ridiculous amount of money in a wedding celebration. There are ways to keep it simple and meaningful! Use every resource available!
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