Talk to the Lord, to one another, and/or a family counselor, not a divorce lawyer.

It is interesting to note that since the No-Fault Divorce Law first passed in California, divorces increased; leading to more marriages disagreements be a good enough reason to divorce. Despite of how much accessible divorce is in these days; research has shown that 70% of divorced people regret their decision of getting a divorce. It is important to keep in mind the negative consequences that divorce has, especially in children. 62% of women who get divorced go into poverty with their children. Dads are more likely to move in within 400 miles from their children; denying the children to have the positive effects that father have on both male and female kids. 

So, it is a lot easier to talk to the Lord in prayer and counsel with your spouse to try to resolve conflicts and save a marriage. At least 70% of couples who end up working it out, reported five years to be satisfied with their marriage. DO IT FOR YOUR CHILDREN! There are less emotional, psychological, even physiological negative consequences on children in intact families. They end up being more productive to society. Also, think about how time consuming and expensive divorces are.